The third party or a LOVE TRIANGLE

To be in love with someone who is in a primary relationship or marriage with someone else can be the most excruciating and at the same time the most seemingly beautiful experience of your life.

The experience is unforgetable because it is hard to stop or change it. It bring you in a situation that you may not be able to get out for a long time, one you may in fact not want to get out of. Your inability to make the situation into exactly what you want makes you suffer.

The experience is beautiful because the person that you are having the relationship with seems like your perfect, ideal partner — your soulmate. There is a very special connection between the two of you. The attention from your loved one and the way he or she feels about you is deeply satisfying. The bond between the two of you seems magical.

In spite of the beauty and the connection in the relationship, you suffer tremendously. It’s as if you are on a roller coaster ride, up one moment and more in love then you have ever been, down the next and in more despair then you have ever felt.

This is what i felt about one month ago, when my EX-GF break up with me. At first i dont know what was happenning. I though she just angry with be for not be able to fetch her at PUTRA LRT station. I used to persuit her to be together with me, but she rejected me not only once, but few times. Althoght i put lots of efford into in, but i still fail, fail to get her heart back.

So, i begin to suspect that our relationship include the involvement of the third party. Thanks to my EX-GF she told me that she fall in love in that guy(Mr.S). After hearing it, i heart is pain like a knife hit directly into my heart. Is damn fuking pain, no people will understand the feeling. I also did not believe this will happen to me. Althoguh i am not caring enough and i dont know how to sweet talk, but my heart is just towards you, you know that i won't do a things that beyond my limit. But how come you....... I wont blame you, i don't know caring and i don't know sweet talk, that's why you choose others. I will not blame you forever and ever.

But what i can admit is in term of caring and sweet talk, MR.S is better than me a few streets back. However i discover a problem with this guy, he just break up with his GF in 2 days time and he can chase my EX. Radiculous? I think so, but it's just my own opinion and from what i am observed. How come a guy can fall in love to other girl in just days?? WTF is this? By the way, is MR.S is that good till can make my EX-GF fall in love with her? I dont know... and dont want to know. What a luckiest thing in this situation is my GF break up with me before she accept MR.S. Thank you once again for not bluffing me.

One thing i have observed is that this MR.S like to be a Third party. Do you know what is third party in love? Basically, a third party is a person who chase a girl or boy who already have BF or GF. MR.S likes the character too much, i think one day he are be able to take the golden horse awards at Hong Kong. Last time it happen on my friend which MR.S also a third party in a relationship. My friends Miss. M have suffered so much from this problem and i am confident that she is recover slowly. Miss.M also have a BF and MR.S go and "Kiao" other's GF. Izit so fun to be a third party and make others people in dilemma?

Thanks god my friend is recovering slowly from this case and now my turn to "Kena". LOL damn funny, my case is exactly same with her. Mr.S start to chase my EX-GF after breaking up with his existing GF in just 2 days time and congrates to him, he success. 5 years relationship?? What the hell is that, i am talking about MR.S using just few days to get her. Mr.S, i respect you so much.

But from what i believe, a person who destroy a relationship will get what he should. I believed GOD is up there and HE know what u did to all people. A person who like to be a third party will get the punishment he deserved for. So, for u guys or girls out there, dont even try be a third party, cause it lead to LOVE TRIANGLE. It will make the existing BF and GF suffering, and the happiest person is the person who be a third party(In this case MR.S). To those who ever face the same problem with me, you must be strong and brave to live happier than them. We must believed that this kind of people will face their punishment just that the punishment haven come. Thanks god.

P/S: sorry for my poor english, hope you all can understand